To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
You can forgive people who do not follow you through a philosophical disquisition; but to find your wife laughing when you had tears in your eyes, or staring when you were in a fit ...
Love and sex can go together and sex and unlove can go together and love and unsex can go together. But personal love and personal sex is bad.
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