Barbara Kingsolver is an American fiction writer. She has written several novels and poems, and established the Bellwether Prize for "literature of social change".
Memory is a complicated thing, a relative to truth but not it's twin.
The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, ...
It is surprising how much of memory is built around things unnoticed at the time.
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