Margaret Deland (nee Margaretta Wade Campbell) (February 23, 1857 - January 13, 1945) was an American novelist, short-story writer, and poet. She also wrote an autobiography in two volumes.
Self-sacrifice which denies common sense is not a virtue. It's a spiritual dissipation.
A pint can't hold a quart -- if it holds a pint it is doing all that can be expected of it.
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