Quotes by Lord Chesterfield

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The Earls of Chesterfield were an aristocratic family from Derbyshire, England. Their ancestral seat is Bretby Hall at Bretby, Derbyshire, and their family name is "Stanhope". Upon the death of the thirteenth Earl, the title ...

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You must look into people, as well as at them.

Persist and persevere, and you will find most things that are attainable, possible.
Advice is seldom welcome; and those who want it the most always like it the least.
Let your enemies be disarmed by the gentleness of your manner, but at the same time let them feel, the steadiness of your resentment.
Buy good books, and read them; the best books are the commonest, and the last editions are always the best, if the editors are not blockheads.
Good breeding is the result of good sense, some good nature, and a little self-denial for the sake of others.
A weak mind is like a microscope, which magnifies trifling things, but cannot receive great ones.
Pleasure is a necessary reciprocal. No one feels, who does not at the same time give it. To be pleased, one must please. What pleases you in others, will in general please them in you.
Wear your learning like a watch and do not pull it out merely to show you have it. If you are asked for the time, tell it; but do not proclaim it hourly unasked.
Most people enjoy the inferiority of their best friends.
Little, vicious minds abound with anger and revenge, and are incapable of feeling the pleasure of forgiving their enemies.
Never hold anyone by the button or the hand in order to be heard out; for if people are unwilling to hear you, you had better hold your tongue than them.
Let blockheads read what blockheads wrote.
Take care in your minutes, and the hours will take care of themselves.
Manners must adorn knowledge, and smooth its way through the world.
I find, by experience, that the mind and the body are more than married, for they are most intimately united; and when one suffers, the other sympathizes.
Patience is the most necessary quality for business, many a man would rather you heard his story than grant his request.
Aim at perfection in everything, though in most things it is unattainable. However, they who aim at it, and persevere, will come much nearer to it than those whose laziness and despondency make them give it up as unattainable.
Style is the dress of thoughts; and let them be ever so just, if your style is homely, coarse, and vulgar, they will appear to as much disadvantage, and be as ill received, as your person, though ever so well-proportioned, would if dressed in rags, dirt, and tatters.
Frequent and loud laughter is the characteristic of folly and ill manners.
If ever a man and his wife, or a man and his mistress, who pass nights as well as days together, absolutely lay aside all good breeding, their intimacy will soon degenerate into a coarse familiarity, infallibly productive of contempt or disgust.
I look upon indolence as a sort of suicide; for the man is effectually destroyed, though the appetites of the brute may survive.
Men, as well as women, are much oftener led by their hearts than by their understandings.
Honest error is to be pitied, not ridiculed.
Be wiser than other people, if you can; but do not tell them so.
Wit is so shining a quality that everybody admires it; most people aim at it, all people fear it, and few love it unless in themselves. A man must have a good share of wit himself to endure a great share of it in another.
The world is a country which nobody ever yet knew by description; one must travel through it one's self to be acquainted with it.
Whatever is worth doing at all is worth doing well.
Young men are apt to think themselves wise enough, as drunken men are apt to think themselves sober enough.
Vice, in its true light, is so deformed, that it shocks us at first sight; and would hardly ever seduce us, if it did not at first wear the mask of some virtue.
Let them show me a cottage where there are not the same vices of which they accuse the courts.
I recommend you to take care of the minutes, for the hours will take care of themselves.
The less one has to do, the less time one finds to do it in.
The world can doubtless never be well known by theory: practice is absolutely necessary; but surely it is of great use to a young man, before he sets out for that country, full of mazes, windings, and turnings, to have at least a general map of it, made by some experienced traveler.
Speak of the moderns without contempt, and of the ancients without idolatry.
A man's own good breeding is the best security against other people's ill manners.
Prepare yourself for the world, as the athletes used to do for their exercise; oil your mind and your manners, to give them the necessary suppleness and flexibility; strength alone will not do.
Ceremony is necessary as the outwork and defense of manners.
A man of sense only trifles with them, plays with them, humors and flatters them, as he does with a sprightly and forward child; but he neither consults them about, nor trusts them with, serious matters.
Modesty is the only sure bait when you angle for praise.
If you would convince others, seem open to conviction yourself.
He makes people pleased with him by making them first pleased with themselves.
Our prejudices are our mistresses; reason is at best our wife, very often heard indeed, but seldom minded.
Know the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness, no delay, no procrastination; never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.
If you can once engage people's pride, love, pity, ambition (or whatever is their prevailing passion) on your side, you need not fear what their reason can do against you.
Lord Tyrawley and I have been dead these two years, but we don't choose to have it known.
It is commonly said that ridicule is the best test of truth; for that it will not stick where it is not just. I deny it. A truth learned in a certain light, and attacked in certain words, by men of wit and humor, may, and often doth, become ridiculous, at least so far, that the truth is only remembered and repeated for the sake of the ridicule.
In the case of scandal, as in that of robbery, the receiver is always thought as bad as the thief.
Most people have ears, but few have judgment; tickle those ears, and depend upon it, you will catch those judgments, such as they are.
Politeness is as much concerned in answering letters within a reasonable time, as it is in returning a bow, immediately.
Never seem wiser, nor more learned, than the people you are with. Wear your learning, like your watch, in a private pocket: and do not merely pull it out and strike it; merely to show that you have one.
One should always think of what one is about: when one is learning, one should not think of play: and when one is at play, one should not think of one's learning.
Observe it, the vulgar often laugh, but never smile, whereas well-bred people often smile, and seldom or never laugh. A witty thing never excited laughter, it pleases only the mind and never distorts the countenance.
In my mind, there is nothing so illiberal, and so ill-bred, as audible laughter.
Learning is acquired by reading books, but the much more necessary learning, the knowledge of the world, is only to be acquired by reading men, and studying all the various facets of them.
Knowledge of the world in only to be acquired in the world, and not in a closet.
Knowledge may give weight, but accomplishments give luster, and many more people see than weigh.
There is nothing that people bear more impatiently, or forgive less, than contempt: and an injury is much sooner forgotten than an insult.
Inferiority is what you enjoy in your best friends.
History is but a confused heap of facts.