One naturally becomes happy on being praised and respected. He alone, who can feel the same happiness on being insulted, deserves to accept alms.
Search on Google Books to find citations of this quotation.
H.H. Asaramji Bapu is a Self realized saint of Indian, and a spiritual icon of 21st Century. He is endearingly called "Bapuji"
I'm male, say nothing
I'm female, say nothing