You want to make sure that your life is surrounded with these three important things, a) Light, b) Sound, c) Movement. You need physical and spiritual light (insight). Sound (what you hear like the word, motivation, trainings) Movement. Change your room outlook, make something move. Be creative. You need to have a picture of your future around you than just pictures of your past.
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It is said an Eastern monarch once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence to be ever in view, and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations. They presented him the words: “And this, too, shall pass away.” Realizing that our destination is beautiful, we will either find a way or make one. No matter how, we will be what God wants us to be. Will you?