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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

Most of us are about as eager to be changed as we were to be born, and go through our changes in a similar state of shock.
We cannot become what we need to be, remaining what we are.
Only the wisest and the stupidest of men never change.
Life is made of millions of moments, but we live only one of these moments at a time. As we begin to change this moment, we begin to change our lives.
To put the world in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put the nation in order, we must put the family in order; to put the family in order, we must cultivate our personal life; and to cultivate our personal life, we must first set our hearts right.
It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.
Both tears and sweat are salty, but they render a different result. Tears will get you sympathy; sweat will get you change.
Progress is a nice word, but change is its motivator and change has enemies.
Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
No one can persuade another to change. Each of us guards a gate of change that can only be opened from the inside. We cannot open the gate of another, either by argument or emotional appeal.
I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.
Change starts when someone sees the next step.
Life belongs to the living, and he who lives must be prepared for changes.
A woman's mind is cleaner than a man s: She changes it more often.
The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.
The things that have come into being change continually. The man with a good memory remembers nothing because he forgets nothing.
To act and act wisely when the time for action comes, to wait and wait patiently when it is time for repose, put man in accord with the rising and falling tides (of affairs), so that with nature and law at his back, and truth and beneficence as his beacon light, he may accomplish wonders. Ignorance of this law results in periods of unreasoning enthusiasm on the one hand, and depression on the other. Man thus becomes the victim of the tides when he should be their Master.
There has never been a time when you and I have not existed, nor will there be a time when we will cease to exist. As the same person inhabits the body through childhood, youth, and old age, so too at the time of death he attains another body. The wise are not deluded by these changes.
All change is not growth; all movement is not forward.
When it becomes more difficult to suffer than change -- then you will change.
We don't change what we are, we change what we think what we are.
Change means movement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of a nonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasive friction of conflict.
You will never change your life until you change something you do daily.
Any change, even for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.
The motto of chivalry is also the motto of wisdom; to serve all, but love only one.
Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. [I Corinthians]
Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.
Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life.
God loves each of us as if there were only one of us.
If you have it [Love], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have.
Love is, above all, the gift of oneself.
There is love of course. And then there's life, its enemy.
Wicked men obey from fear; good men, from love.
Love seeks no cause beyond itself and no fruit; it is its own fruit, its own enjoyment. I love because I love; I love in order that I may love.
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
Change does not necessarily assure progress, but progress implacably requires change. Education is essential to change, for education creates both new wants and the ability to satisfy them.
People who wait for changes to occur on the outside before they commit to making changes on the inside will never make any changes at all.
The main dangers in this life are the people who want to change everything or nothing.
That's the risk you take if you change: that people you've been involved with won't like the new you. But other people who do will come along.
Two basic rules of life: 1. Change is Inevitable 2. Everyone Resists Change. Remember this: When you are through changing... you're through.
If one desires a change, one must be that change before that change can take place.
Change is the end result of all true learning. Change involves three things: First, a dissatisfaction with self -- a felt void or need; second, a decision to change to fill the void or need; and third, a conscious dedication to the process of growth and change -- the willful act of making the change, doing something.
Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.
Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.
Seek not to change the world, but choose to change your mind about the world.
Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.

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